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War Brides (and Husbands) Find Their Place in a New Iraq

BASRA — Following service in Iraq and an honorable discharge last April, Lieutenant Samantha Blaine returned to Iraq to start a small construction company.

She is far from alone. The growth of the postwar economy in Iraq has proven so tempting that dozens of members of the U.S. military chose to remain in Iraq. Thus a region long associated with its citizens fleeing abroad has seen unprecedented volumes of immigration.

Seven years ago, Ms. Blaine had no experience with safety engineering or building codes but was sent to Basra to assist in the rebuilding of the Iraqi infrastructure. Today, her private contracting company is benefiting from a local building boom.

“For the first year of our business, most of the work was government contracts,” said Blaine, “but after the major infrastructure work was done and the Iraqi economy began to rebound, there was a surge in demand for new housing.”

Ms. Blaine met her husband, Ibrahim Khan, when he was hired to work as her translator during the war. It is a role he continues to serve as Ms. Blaine’s Arabic improves.

Ms. Blaine claims that it hasn’t been hard to adjust to life in Iraq. “I expected to have to deal with a lot of sexism. But until the invasion, this was a modern, secular society.”

Sergeant Rahim Rafiqi has also benefited from the new construction, opening an insurance agency that caters to the construction industry. Prior to joining the military, Mr. Rafiqi had worked at his father’s small insurance company. “I was able to get backing for what some would have seen as a risky investment, but we were in the black pretty quickly,” says Mr. Rafiqi.

According to the recent émigrés, the cultural adjustments that are necessary to move from the United States to Iraq are more than worth enduring to be a part of the new Iraq. “Getting sent to Iraq was the best thing to happen to me,” said Ms. Blaine. “I’m finally living the American Dream.”

9 Comments so far ...

1. Gianfranco

he whole concept is nice in here… But this particular thing is overly naïve… No good, no matter how hard we try, can be brought from any amend to the war already done… Civil unrest will continue as an afterwave of the shockwave the invassion already was, whether it be directed at foreigners or at local minorities… Bush was a devil, but Hussein was a demon… Evil as evil gets… This is too naïve…

Comment on November 14, 2008 03:48 am
2. David

I think a song from the 70’s sums this up best.

“War! What is it good for? ABSOLUTEY, NOTHING!”

Comment on November 14, 2008 12:48 pm
3. Kate

Living up to your American dream, why not?.. Civilization clashes happen daily in this small world. But why on earth should these clashes lead to military aggression and armed conflict? Only because of lack of patience and tolerance. Stop aggression. Start self-perfection at any moment while you’r alive. No matter how hopeless, no matter how far, we have to stick to talks and agreements, not cannons and helicopters.

Comment on November 17, 2008 03:31 am
4. Gianfranco

if anyone misunderstood… I was not saying a word on favour of war… all I was saying that the beast is already awake and it wont go asleep very easily…

Comment on November 17, 2008 08:30 am
5. ex-armydude

It’s a beautiful idea. It would have been cool to meet an Iraqi woman during the 26 lonely months I was stuck over there, but whoever wrote this has never been to Iraq and seen how women and girls are treated there(like cloistered pack animals). Bagdad may have once been modern and secular, but the rest of the country was and is still medevial in its attitude toward woman.

Comment on November 20, 2008 04:20 am
6. everyshadow

This is nice, but waaay to optimistic. I cannot imagine wanting to return to live in the country where I’d had just fought a war. Unless it was out of some sense of trying to redeem myself for the things I’d done. I know that Iraq was a modern society beforehand, but so was Afghanistan. That doesn’t mean people just go back to the way things were before. I’ve known women who married Arab men, and they said that the men had completely different expectations of them. They were supposed to take care of the home, have everything perfect when the husband came home from work, all that stuff. Modern American women are not going to jump so gladly into that lifestyle again - it’s what we’ve worked so hard to get out of. This doesn’t mean that all Arab men are like that - I’ve met some who are totally forward thinking in their treatment of women. But it’s not necessarily the norm.

Comment on November 23, 2008 12:44 pm
7. solomon kohan

ex-armydude, I’m sure it would have been cool to meet an Iraqi woman during the 26 lonely months you were stuck over there, but if your hormones would allow you to clearly judge after reading the article, you would notice that it is about an American woman, lt. Samantha Blaine. (yes, praise Allah, in America a woman can be an officer). I’m not even going into the other, somewhat more subtle things that you missed in the article. I’ll just spell this out for you: it is all made up, in good humour for the people who can figure it out.

Comment on November 23, 2008 07:54 pm
8. Davos

Uhhh??……..heard of satire?????

Comment on December 19, 2008 05:46 pm

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